Emma Seppälä reflects on how to avoid instinctive decisions
There is now a good body of research on the neuroscience of meditation, showing that it improves self-awareness, emotion regulation, self-control, and many other things. Most people, if they are honest with themselves, adopt some sort of habit of dealing with the situation when they feel stressed or down. Think about food, alcohol, fate, entertainment, shopping, even overwork and excessive exercise. Most adults have never received formal education on what to do with negative emotions.Addiction isn't just about substance use. It's about trying to avoid a feeling. It's about trying to escape. You know it's not good for you, but you do it anyway because you don't like the current state you're in, whether it's feeling pain, sorrow, loss, or shame.Why? Because...